Embrace Evolution in Marriages !

Marriages are made in HEAVEN.

It's so true. In our time, two strangers who have never known each other, post marriage lived together. This togetherness is termed as eternal togetherness - soul to soul connection. 

Evolution in marriage too has happened through the years. Transformation in social norms for marriage is taking place now, which we need to embrace gracefully by understanding the depth of the scenario.

Marriage is not only between 2 different persons but it's between 2 families, it's a functional unit to run the society. 

The marriage model which acts like seedling turning into a plant and then tree bearing flowers, fruits, fragrance, which beautifies the environment, where many birds make their nests, squirrels run and play, gives cooling effect and protects from scorching heat of the sun during Summers and most importantly provide oxygen (LIFE) to live happily not only to themselves but society as a whole. This can be achieved only when the conditions to nurture the seedling to tree are given in optimum quantity at the right time ( fertile soil, balanced water, sunlight, carbon dioxide, temperature, quality of soil, place etc.). If you don't get optimum conditions, the seedling may die at any stage. 

So, it is the duty of society, families and the people who get together to take care of optimum conditions provided to each other in marriage.

LOVE and RESPECT for each other are the optimum conditions to nurture marriage. Rest all values automatically get attracted via above like trust, loyalty, space for each other, living without dissolving one's own identity, compromise, being responsible for each other etc.

The journey of evolution in marriage like taking time in choosing partner by youngsters, living in before actual social marriage, checking compatibility for each other, hardly family integration, choosing love -romance - care over duties and responsibilities for each other, breaking up and moving on if love and respect does not exist in the marriage are due to the way marriages were handled / survived / conducted in the past. 

Everything has a logical reason and science behind it. We have to find the reason from the past for today's behavior in marriages. Youngsters are not to be blamed. We teach history as a subject in school for the same.

We have enough time in the present to create beautiful history for marriage behavior for our coming generations.

Marriage is an Institution. For example, in school/colleges we have teacher - student relationships to shape the future of a student. Teacher - teacher, principal - teacher, parent - teacher - student etc. are the relationships which all work together to not only shape the future of a child but society and nation as a whole. In similar fashion, in marriage also we (all together) not only shape the future of the progeny (child) but ourselves also as a whole. 

Wishing all marriages flourish with love and respect for each other.

Embrace the change !